A calm question can reveal where two interpretations differ.

The idea

Use What did you mean by ...? to ask about meaning. Explain your intention with I meant ..., then confirm the next step.

Examples

  • I thought we had agreed to meet on Friday, not Thursday.
  • When you said the room was free, did you mean all afternoon?
  • I can see why my message sounded abrupt; I was in a hurry.
  • I meant that the report needs another look, not that your work was poor.
  • So you expected me to book the tickets, while I thought you would?
  • Thanks for clearing that up. Let’s confirm the deadline in writing.

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Watch out

After did, use the base verb: What did you mean?, not What did you meant?

Try it yourself

  1. Choose the phrase that checks someone’s meaning: ___ by “flexible”? (What did you mean / What did you meant)

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    What did you mean

    What did you mean asks the person to explain their intended meaning.

  2. Complete the clarification: I meant Tuesday, ___ Wednesday. (not / no)

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    not

    not contrasts Tuesday with the mistaken day.

  3. Choose the phrase that acknowledges the confusion: I can see ___ you misunderstood. (why / what)

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    why

    why introduces the reason for the misunderstanding.

Use it today

Describe a mix-up and agree on a practical next step.