A single person can be referred to with they, whether their gender is unknown or these are their pronouns.

The idea

Use they as subject, them as object and their before a noun. Even for one person, say they are and they have.

Examples

  • Someone left their umbrella by the door.
  • If a customer calls, ask them to leave a message.
  • The new neighbour says they are a musician.
  • Alex uses they and them pronouns; I met them at the library.
  • Every applicant should check their email tomorrow.
  • A visitor is waiting because they need a map.

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Watch out

Do not use they is: the verb has the same form as with plural they. Respect the pronouns a person uses.

Try it yourself

  1. Choose the correct option. A guest has arrived. Please welcome ___. (them / their)

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    them

    them is the object of the verb welcoming the guest.

  2. Choose the correct option. Someone forgot ___ ticket. (their / them)

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    their

    their comes before the noun ticket.

  3. Choose the correct option. Sam uses they/them pronouns. ___ are waiting outside. (They / He)

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    They

    They refers to Sam and takes are.

Use it today

Describe a visitor without naming their gender, then write a sentence about someone who uses they pronouns.